A Window Into My Submissive Mind

fuckyeahchastiseme: Won't your husband mind? He better not...

fuckyeahchastiseme:

Won't your husband mind?

He better not mind! I've got his dick all locked up in a chastity device.  He does whatever I tell him, or rather whatever I order of him.

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pervertedpommie: (via TumbleOn)

pervertedpommie:

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sheisincharge: Listen to me, from now on you will do exactly as...

sheisincharge:

Listen to me, from now on you will do exactly as I say, you will obey me and follow orders without question, is that understood or do I need to press any harder with my foot, just nod that you accept my terms…

deviantdominantdesires: Panty teasing - a particular favourite...

deviantdominantdesires:

Panty teasing - a particular favourite of mine.

That's it… that's the spot!

That's it… that's the spot!

Decisions!

Decisions!

Dear my-submissive-mind, I live in a pretty similar situation that you described. My wife is beginning to dominate me, but she doesn't understand that chastity is very important to me. She knows that I have a key to my cage, but I shouldn't...

Thank you for the comment. It's nice to know that I'm not alone!

Choices

I would be in denial in a different way if I thought my wife was really into chastity and denial. She's not. But, I think I just have to live with it and make the best of my situation. She gave me a great BJ yesterday, so why should I complain? We had an amazing weekend away together so that is the most important thing, right? Sex is almost non-existent between us and must be initiated by me but that conflicts with my desire to be teased and denied. She wants me to decide when we have sex and wants me to demand it when I want it. I guess the choice is really mine. I'm not sure if I will continue the chastity game at this point. I don't think I want to give it up entirely but it will be less often. Maybe it is time for a real break from this.

Tease last night

My wife teased me last night, our first night away together. When we got in bed she stroked my cock and we also were in the spoon position for a while, when I got to rub up against her sexy ass. Her legs were smooth too since she shaved for me. I asked about sex and she said that I hadn’t been good enough and should lock up for the night. On went my new short cage!

I received this submission today. Thanks S, and I have enjoyed starting to read your blog...

I received this submission today. Thanks S, and I have enjoyed starting to read your blog too!

What a great tumblr!  Nothing like real life.  Thank you.

I’ve been blogging for a couple years, but it was private, for the eyes of the woman I serve only.

However, She recently gave me permission to share, so i am.

http://sheownsit.blogspot.com/

Best,

s

Release

Last night I was unlocked for good behavior and permitted to cum. My wife prefers that I am not so sexually frustrated for our trip away this weekend with the likelihood of "normal" sex - she thinks an orgasm inside her could be too intense. So, I edged myself multiple times while laying in bed and finally came hard, then forced myself to taste some of it afterwards - part of what i had been fantasizing about. I would have taken a pic but it was dark and I didn't want to disturb my sleeping wife :)

letmedothis: let me have a mouthful

letmedothis:

let me have a mouthful

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lookn4funswfl: I'm not an ass man but that's an incredible...

lookn4funswfl:

I'm not an ass man but that's an incredible ass

I am an ass man… And I agree!

After 36 hours of continuous wear, my conclusion about the new...

After 36 hours of continuous wear, my conclusion about the new cage is that it is very secure and can be worn long term without any real issues. Yes, it is slightly less comfortable than my other metal one and probably not as clean if you keep it on for several days. But, there seems to be no chance of escape or cumming while wearing it and it makes your cock feel very small and useless all the time. It is the perfect punishment cage. I would recommend it for strict Dommes and men who really want to be in serious lockup.

love your blog, wish I had a boy to lock up like this!

Thank you… I wish my wife was as enthusiastic as you about being a domme!

Ok, it's about time!

Ok, it's about time!

Thats looks like a REALLY small cage. How did your first day in it go? is your wife teasing you nightly to make the cages more uncomfortable or is she still too pissed off?

Yes, it is small. Last night I woke up in some mild pain once but it wasn't that bad, just a little uncomfortable. I deserved it :)

I haven't been teased yet. I have been afraid to ask for anything since Sunday and I think she's making me suffer a little with lack of attention.

After about 16 hours so far with it on, it's fairly comfortable. The only issues are sometimes my cock head pushes against the end of the cage causing mild discomfort while walking around and urinating isn't as clean due to the tight space. I can easily adjust things to work through these small issues so far.

I decided to order another cage recently and it just arrived...

I decided to order another cage recently and it just arrived yesterday. This one is smaller and even easier to conceal. I did a quick change last night and even decided to keep it on at work today. It might be too small for me to wear all the time comfortably but it could be a good change once in a while. If anyone is interested, I got it on eBay from a seller in China. The quality seems surprisingly very good so far.

Of course, I'm still locked up from my bad behavior on Sunday and now it has been a week since my last orgasm.